Response to "The riddle of experience vs. memory"

It is true that people cannot strightly think about what is the happiness. The experience self guides what is the happiness for a person. However, this makes happiness becomes too actual, as people shows the definetion with happiness. For me, I think happiness shouldn't be too real. Everyone has different opinions to happiness, but most them want to be happy. There is the question, who doesn't ? People chose to do things because they want to, they feel happy apparently. If one says that experience self leads the happiness, it changes the meaning of happiness. On the other hand, I think that being happy could be very difficult, especialy these days. There are too many things which we don't have choices. We are forced to do things that we don't want, and pretend to be happy. This makes our lives much more harder. My father says that we should always have smile on our face, even though we meet the person who we don't like. However, in the internal feeling, we are not happy, but we have to pretend to be happy. In addition, I think it might be easier for children since they are innocent and they don't need to consider too much. However, if people try to think positively, they could be more happier. Positive thinking reduces lots of pressures from a person. In brife, just try to be positive for everything and appreciate.